And So I Find Myself Amused

Kids, time to stroll down memory lane.

I recall when I became a parent activist that there many long-termers before me. I tried to honor their work and give credit where credit is due. Some never wanted to see their names in print and I honored that as well.

And now I'm the long-termer but yes, the day will come when I, too, will hang up my keyboard. What happens to this blog I will leave to my readers to decide on.

How am I amused? Well, there are several new parent advocates out there. I think most of them do good work. One reminds me of my former writing partner, Charlie Mas, who was a calm take-no-prisoners guy in his writing. (And oddly, he and his wife live in Tucson now.)

However, one of these people told me in an email that my blog was good for historical SPS references (true) but I "wasn't on the ground and didn't know what was going on in the schools." I did find his statement disrespectful, almost like patting me on the head and telling me to sit down.

I know something that he doesn't.

You don't do this work this long without developing relationships districtwide and even state-wide. Kind of like my own network of spies.

What is also amusing is that there is room for many kinds of parent activists but my blog? You'll find stories here that no one else is writing. From the everyday to the very serious and everything in-between. As well, I try to stay aware of events happening at schools to alert parents and others. These other hunter gatherers write lengthy tomes about district issues (which is great but if there's a fire at a school, I will report it before anyone else writing about SPS.)

What really made me smile is a topic thread on the r/seattlepublicschools page. The page was started by some Seattle Schools parents. Only one person identifies himself. As I say, I sign my name to everything because that's how you treat your own forum.

Here's the lead:

We're updating Save Seattle Schools as merger news comes in.

What? I was pleased to see a couple of readers chime in:

There may be very valid reasons to keep programs and schools. I appreciate the advocacy. Yet it is confusing that you chose the same name as Melissa Westbrook’s longtime blog. Agree it would be helpful to describe more about yourselves.

This shows how unserious you are, if you didn't know about Melissa's writing or advocacy, or even bother to read the first Google hit for your website name.

The owner of the page fires back:

that's a bit strong. It is a fairly big miss on the general cleanliness portion, but not sure you can call it unserious?

The commenter:

I am sure I can call it unserious. It's worth rebranding your work.

And this:

You’re brand new and haven’t even identified yourselves. Change the name now.

Edit: downvoted by someone who has never seen how well it works out when a new group shows up to advocate something using an existing identifier they didn’t know about. It’s absolutely better to do the name change immediately while there is no recognition or discussion. You also have the option of explaining to every single media contact that you had just never heard of Melissa and didn’t intend to look like you were representing an existing well known advocate, you just didn’t know about existing advocacy until your group was too well established to change the name.


@u/Save-Seattle-Schools please consider tweaking your name asap before more time passes, and of course please identify yourselves on your website.

Funny thing, I have praised the owner of that Reddit page.

Since I'm so "antiquated" and out to pasture, then I need not reference any of them nor their blogs here. But I can say to them that you need as many eyes as possible to know your blog/Reddit page. 

Save Seattle schools isn't exactly an obscure reference. Multiple entities using that name because they want to... save Seattle schools is more than reasonable. Why is this an issue?

Google it. You'll see just me.

Did I put people up to the praise? Nope, saw it after the fact. 

The owner of that page never said what he might do. All I can say is Save Seattle Schools is in my HRL. If this person intends to mess with that, okay then.

Comments

Benjamin Lukoff said…
I'm a little confused here. The new Save Seattle Schools website and the r/seattlepublicschools subreddit are two completely different things. Perhaps I'm misreading what you're saying?

"What really made me smile is a topic thread on the r/seattlepublicschools page. The page was started by some Seattle Schools parents. Only one person identifies himself... Funny thing, I have praised the owner of that Reddit page. Since I'm so "antiquated" and out to pasture, then I need not reference any of them nor their blogs here. But I can say to them that you need as many eyes as possible to know your blog/Reddit page."
Bob S said…
Here's something else amusing, as reported by SPS staff. There are people out there who learned in the same week that their school is being consolidated because "we're broke", while they also learned that their classrooms will become construction site for a few months because the district is installing the latest tech in surveillance and whatnot. Sounds like even buildings that opened in the last 5 years will get an upgrade. This is presumably because our other coffees are flush with cash from all the levies?
Grant S said…
I think the concern about the name is entirely fair, but there’s something remarkably ironic about describing another advocate’s criticism as feeling like being patted on the head and told to sit down, then opening your own response with “Kids, time to stroll down memory lane.” I’ve followed this blog for years, and it’s disappointing how often the reporting and advocacy seem to take a back seat to personal grievances, condescension, and reminders of who’s been around the longest. There’s real value in the work you’ve done, which makes it all the more frustrating to see a legitimate point buried under this kind of commentary. At some point, the tone starts to undermine the very credibility you’re trying to defend.
Anonymous said…
Clarifying comment and a +1 to Benjamin's comment:

"The owner of the page fires back:

that's a bit strong. It is a fairly big miss on the general cleanliness portion, but not sure you can call it unserious?"

the author of that quoted comment is an admin of the subreddit, not the person running a website called save Seattle schools. To be clear and blunt: Albert is not behind that page. Albert has his own website that hosts transcripts of SPS board meetings and he started or at least promoted the subreddit as an alternative to Facebook forums. He also publishes data analysis in Substack (I think) and sometimes makes funny and educational games like "balance the SPS budget!" The fact that I know all this speaks to the fact that he signs his work. Albert is not your guy. Saying this more so other readers of the blog do not make the connection and think the new "Save Seattle Schools" page is written or endorsed by him.

- attribution matters
Well as you seem to state, I've been doing this work for a long time. I've developed a tough skin but some actions DO need to be called out. I think you may confuse analysis with commentary.
I am aware of that Reddit page but I didn't mention any names except for my former writing partner, Charlie Mas.
Anonymous said…
This blog is called "Seattle Schools Community Forum" There are multiple digital references to "Save Seattle school/s or similar names. I don't think you own the words.

Just facts
Benjamin Lukoff said…
Indeed. Albert has nothing to do with the Save Seattle Schools website. The subreddit was started a number of years ago but fell into disuse and he, with the permission of the person who started it, revived it. (Disclosure: he recruited me to be a mod at that time, and we've since added a third.)
Grant S said…
Melissa, I think your continued reluctance to genuinely engage with criticism, and your reflexive retreat into the same tired snark you seem to mistake for “tough skin,” ultimately makes you a less effective advocate. What was once a valuable voice for public school accountability increasingly feels like an isolated fiefdom, where your own authority goes unquestioned and disagreement is treated as a personal affront.
I didn't say I did but the readers at the Reddit page did note the phrasing was attached to this blog for a very long time. Please Google Save Seattle Schools and see what comes up. I'm not going to do anything but I feel it worth pointing out.
Reluctance to engage with criticism? I've allowed so many terrible/ridiculous/unneeded comments go by, both on the topic or an attack on me. That is completely untrue that I think I know all (and I've said that over and over); I need my readers very much to help me along.
Another Parent said…
You've positively impacted my family and my community. I don't always agree with you. So what. I will forever be grateful.
Unknown said…
Melissa, you've helped me survive Soup for Teachers nonsense, strikes, Woke 1.0, and quiet things at my fishy north end school.

You and your commentators often have the only honest insights in town. No wonder they are after you.

Thanks for everything,
SP
Anonymous said…
Two thing can be true at the same time. MW does have a vengeful trait, let’s just put it that way. Anyone opposing her views and putting their name to it, forget about it. I have a few names in mind but not going to name them. I find it doubling when individuals are doxxed and criticized here without the opportunity to defend themselves. But it’s the internet right? Anonymity is a powerful weapon (saying this as an Anonymous poster feels icky but here we are)
At the same time, MW has dedicated long hours of her time posting stuff that families have found helpful. I like to contribute with my comments but to be honest there is so much happening at the Belly of the Beast that nobody knows what is true and what is just a rumor.
So even with her “spies”, Melissa does not have the intel. All Together people dont have all the intel, Albert has a lot of info he interprets his way but there is a whole lot he doesn’t know.
I will leave it at that. I work downtown so I stay away from trouble. I need the salary and the benefits.
BTW, Katrina Hunt is still here, very much so. Maybe she will go join her sorority sister after the investigation is over.

Working Dad
I'm vengeful? No, I'm not. Anyone who will speak civilly and sign a name to a comment, I will print it. I have often done that.

As for "intel, naturally no one has all of it. Not even people working at JSCEE know everything. What I can bring is an historical perspective as well as serving as a record of what has happened in this district.

I said that when I reopened the blog during COVID. This time it is mostly to record as best as possible SPS history as it happens.

Regular media do not cover issues the way I do because I'm free to make observations. So if you were researching what happened in the district 15 years ago, I wouldn't say you'd get the best info from the Times. As well, I actually knew a lot of the past SPS players.

If you read the first lines of a post and don't like it, you can always choose not to read it.

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