Do NOT attend any frat party
If you do, don't go alone and don't separate from your friend.
Do not EVER accept a drink you did not open and pour yourself.
I think this Rolling Stone article explains very well why I have this policy.
I wrote a letter to President Sullivan at the University of Virginia (she doesn't have an e-mail but I sent it to her aide):
Dear Nancy,I note that the president does not have an e-mail so would you be good enough to pass this along (if you have the courage of your convictions).
Seattle Schools Community Forum blog
This needs to stop.