An 8-Year Old Committed Suicide over Bullying
Shocking. Stunning. Horrible. From USA Today:
A security camera video taken inside a Cincinnati elementary school reveals that a student assaulted an 8-year-old boy in a restroom and other children may have kicked and struck the boy for 5 minutes while he lay unconscious.
Two days later, the child, Gabriel Taye, hanged himself.
You'd think that was the worst part but no, there's more:
It is unclear what the nurse had been told about the child she was examining.
The police ended their investigation with no charges; it is unclear what the district is doing.
It's hard to read this and believe that any school, any district would withhold information about a child's health and safety from his parent, especially since they knew he did not faint. Perhaps they thought they had it covered since the nurse seemed to think he was okay.
Shameful, absolutely shameful.
A security camera video taken inside a Cincinnati elementary school reveals that a student assaulted an 8-year-old boy in a restroom and other children may have kicked and struck the boy for 5 minutes while he lay unconscious.
Two days later, the child, Gabriel Taye, hanged himself.
You'd think that was the worst part but no, there's more:
In a report obtained by The Cincinnati Enquirer, a Cincinnati Police homicide detective describes the Jan. 24 Carson Elementary School video’s content: “I witnessed behavior that in my belief is bullying and could even rise to the level of criminal assault” if not for the young ages of the perpetrators.The district, the school did not tell the mom what had happened. So when she took him to get checked at a hospital, hospital staff had no idea that he may have had a concussion from kids kicking him in the head or falling on the tile floor.
School officials did not tell Gabriel's mother about the assault or that he had lost consciousness, only that the boy had fainted, said Jennifer Branch, a lawyer for the boy's mother. Gabriel's mother has agreed to identify her child publicly but did not wish to release her own name.
It is unclear what the nurse had been told about the child she was examining.
Later in the evening, Gabriel became nauseous and vomited twice, and his mother took him to Cincinnati Children’s Hospital Medical Center. Branch said the boy only told his mother his stomach hurt, adding that the mother believes he did not know what had happened that day.Right and Gabriel probably didn't know he was kicked in the stomach as he lay on the bathroom floor, nor did his mother who, in turn, could not have let hospital staff know.
He did go to school Jan. 26 and came home. But around 5:30 p.m., he went to his bedroom, knotted a loop in his necktie and hung himself from his bunk bed.And, more than one child was assaulted over the course of the attack.
Gabriel died Jan. 26, the first youth suicide in 2017 in Hamilton County, where Cincinnati is the largest city. Seven county residents 18 and younger have died in suicides so far this year.
The police ended their investigation with no charges; it is unclear what the district is doing.
It's hard to read this and believe that any school, any district would withhold information about a child's health and safety from his parent, especially since they knew he did not faint. Perhaps they thought they had it covered since the nurse seemed to think he was okay.
Shameful, absolutely shameful.
Comments
I was sexually assaulted on the grounds of my jr high 40 yrs ago, but it was my word against theirs.
The issue is humans and what they do or don't do.
Think of all the incidents that we only know about because there were security cameras.
This goes on in Seattle.
But we only hear about the security cameras in the cafeteria.
Do we have any others?
The school had contacted her to let her know that her son had been sent to the office for discipline. My son did not lose consciousness and had no visible injuries so the school did not contact me. When I asked at the office they said yes, they were aware that he might have been the target of some bullying and they had followed normal discipline procedures but they could not discuss those. They assumed my son would tell me if he had any problems. He did suffer some psychological aftereffects but he seemed to think that the attack was simply a more extreme example of how he was treated regularly by the boys in his class.
I applaud the actions of this mother. She thought the attack was an aberration, and out of character for her son, but she was taking no chances and making sure that he understood the situation thoroughly. In middle school her son was popular and was known as a peacemaker who would call out people for things like name-calling.
Yes, these things do happen here in Seattle, and we cannot assume that we will find out at the time that they happen. There does not seem to be any kind of uniform practice with respect to informing parents.
What kind of followup will there be for those boys in Ohio? I saw one mother deal with the situation effectively here, would the same thing work for other children, or not? A few years later my younger child was involved in some name-calling at school and I took a page from her book to nip it in the bud. What kind of response would other parents have? Do they have any idea how to deal with a situation where their child is a bully?
Seen Both Sides
Also, if you look closely in the video, you can see an elephant in the room. Who can say with a straight face that you don't know exactly why school officials did their best to cover up the incident? Or that it won't happen again and again?
Seen Both Sides, that's a great story about a woman who knew she needed to help her son. It was a great example for both adults and children.
I think most SPS elementary schools do talk about bullying. Reporting incidents is the best policy for both adults and children.
Parent
The incident is horrible, and if my guess is accurate, it may have made getting help even harder for the mother.
I cry for the boy.
Westside
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